We ran a restaurant for seven years, grew our own vegetables for two years, and then decided: we are starting over. In Australia.
We met around ten years ago, a few months before Christian left for his chef training in Australia. Lucy decided on the spot to come along, and the one planned semester turned into two. Without that one spontaneous decision there would be no relationship, no kids, and nothing of what you are reading right now.
The actual decision to emigrate landed in early September 2025. The second self-sufficiency field had to be torn down, and in the background the question of whether the restaurant should continue had been running for a while. Both lines came together on the same day. Not one after the other, at the same time. Close the restaurant, go back to Australia, with the kids this time.
We document this for ourselves, our family, and because we believe that other people are going through the same thing right now. The same questions, the same fears, the same spreadsheets at three in the morning. If our experience helps anyone make a better decision, then it has been worth it.
A note on the path: We're entering on a tourist visa (eVisitor 651) and looking for a 186 sponsor only after we arrive. If no sponsor is in place within three months, we fly back. It's a deliberate bet, not a recommendation. Why we're taking this path anyway.
What a family of four actually needs. Flights, visa, insurance, the first months on the ground. With real numbers, not estimates from the internet.
With kidsPreparation, language, school, goodbye. What worked for us and what we underestimated.
Our journeyHow we went from running a restaurant, through two torn-down self-sufficiency fields, to emigrating. The full story.